Monday, December 9, 2013

Thanksgiving Feast Preparations

Gratitude can transform common days into Thanksgiving, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.” ~William Arthur Ward

This is one of the many reasons I was too busy to blog for the past three weeks.

...and God is so very good! 

With guests coming for Thanksgiving dinner, I began my holiday cleaning with full intentions of a thorough top to bottom cleaning of the kitchen, dining room, living room, and the guest bathroom. That turned out a bit too ambitious of an undertaking, but I was still quite happy (and tired out) because at least my kitchen sparkled from top to bottom! You may remember that I began reorganizing my kitchen in March―yeah, that was nine months ago―and I got it all done except for one deep cabinet that goes from the left of the sink to the corner of the room. That one was just a mess of vases that I have never used, grocery bags for which I now have a place in the garage, those plastic trays from bakeries that I use this time of year to share my own baked goods, and plastic bags that are repurposed from being filled with bulk grains to covering my homemade bread. I finally found a perfect thing to use to organize those plastic bread bags: a magazine file holder that I had no more use for in the office/homeschooling area. I love repurposing!

Now my recycle container is in the front of that cabinet, easily removed to get to the other items that are used less often. I also used a small wired shelf to organize the rolls of cling wrap, aluminum foil, wax paper, parchment, and the like. I placed gloves and dishwashing pads in a small rectangle basket that I got at Goodwill that I did not know what I might use it for at the time, but I had a bathroom cabinet in mind. I finally found another home for plastic containers that we recycle in a variety of ways which will mean that my other cabinet where they had been will finally not have stranded lids all over the place and the other small plastic containers we use for food storage will not be falling down anymore. That alone makes puts a big smile on my face.

The Princess kept saying that our guests would not be looking into the cabinets or on top of the cabinets at all the dust that had collected there, but I felt so much better, particularly after tackling that one cabinet I had put off for all these months―actually years before that as well―as if some great weight had been lifted from me. And the really strange thing is that it really was not that bad of a job. The hardest part was deciding to finally throw away the extras that came with our refrigerator and dishwasher that were in a large shopping bag taking up space because I might use them some day or the appliances were more complete by keeping them even though we had not used any of them. I had to come to terms with myself; I completely forgot about them so it is unlikely I would ever need them. I mean, the refrigerator is nearly 20 years old and the dishwasher is probably 15 years old, so if I have not used those things in all that time, how could I justify the space they are taking?

I just seem to have a problem with letting things go that I never used, do not use, and do not plan to use. I suppose it comes from growing up poor and having grandparents that grew up in the Depression, who were hoarders of many unused things: treasures we discovered as children but were basically trash.

Even though the deep cleaning only was done in the kitchen, with every cabinet door oiled and gleaming―my husband said they looked nearly brand new, we cleaned the dining room, living room, and bathroom so that it all looked nice for our guests. Our families had basically adopted each other since we both have no other family around. The six-year gap in our daughters' ages not much different than the over fifteen-year gap between the adults. We have known them from our former church and they stayed a few months more after we left, but when told them about a church that was just five minutes from their home, they loved it at their very first visit. A few weeks later we all became regulars there. We sit together, especially now as the husband is getting involved in media and she is sitting alone on those Sundays―I well remember what that was like for the three years my husband did it.

For our dinner, my husband prepared the turkey in a brine and roasted it on the grill as he has done the past few years. This not only makes for a very moist turkey, but leaves the oven free for baking and keeping the other food warm. I love to make sweet potatoes with pears and pecans adding just enough brown sugar to the broth to add some sweetness. We also had my coleslaw and sourdough rolls. My husband is famous also for his garlic mashed potatoes and gravy. My homemade applesauce was nearly as good as my husband's homemade cranberry sauce with ginger and pears. I made an apple pie (with a wonderfully flaky crust this time) and my friend made a pumpkin one.

There was some good feasting and friendship on our Thanksgiving!

~ My Lord, may I give You thanks forever and forever. ~


  1. Wew! You have been so silent I was becoming concerned ~ though I did feel from the Lord all was well. The thought of you disappearing into cyber~space never to be heard from again made me sad. :( I would love a skype session but the girls performance schedule is insane ~ as it always is at this time of the year.

    1. I would love to Skype when you have the time. I have no plans to give up blogging yet, but from just before Thanksgiving (end of November) to after New Year's Day is always very time demanding, even though we take a homeschooling break--actually that is the reason why we take a homeschooling break! :0 <---Me screaming!

      Actually, I am recovering from a series of Mama vs. Tween episodes. The child came make an argument about almost everything and has become a bit careless with her words towards me. She is not at bad as I was at her age, but my family situation was nowhere as good as hers is and I just want a little more respectfulness from her. Anyway, Daddy took a sick day off, which is really a mental health day for me, and is taking the Princess to science class, piano, and on errands today. I am supposed to be relaxing -- but I am also cleaning the better improve my mental health. ;) (We will not go there!)

  2. I absolutely love reading your blog and about your life of faith & family! I still remember your comment on my blog about hoping I would share something more personal. I'm thinking about changing it up and making it more about my story of my walk with Christ, like yours, because I love feeling like I know you even though I never met you. God bless you during this busy season of celebrating His incarnation and love!

    1. Thank you so much. This is quite a complement!

      Paula, I met one of my very best friends on a message board for homeschoolers and we liked each other immediately, but it was not until I read her blogs that I felt like I really knew her...and she literally is on the other side of the world. Ganieda inspired me with her writings and I copied her format in posting a quote at the beginning of each post.

      I cannot even remember how I found your blog, but I remember that you were the reason I began reviewing books...which I have been neglecting for too many months now.

      There is always room in my heart for more friends and although I have been avoiding being online or even reading emails of late (probably just a phase), I will make the effort to stop in at your blog more.

    2. Your blog is one of the first ones I started following three years ago! I'm going to make a change on my blog, after the holidays, for 2014, and maybe try not to review so many books - haha! I'm looking forward to hearing about your Christmas season on your blog!


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